am i the only female that encouraged their boyfriend to watch porn and handle his self when he was…

I was so fine with it when I was in my first trimester. I felt awful so I let him handle himself, he still loves me the same lol. only damaging if it's kept in secret

Porn is damaging to many aspects of a healthy relationship. 👌🏼

i would never encourage porn as it is very damaging to a relationship and to the soul. but i do encourage him to please himself if he cant wait for me. but i am usually in the mood so we dont have this problem.

I may just be more laid back. my boyfriend didn't get laid my entire first trimester. but i guess it's got to do with the fact I just trust mine. hell him and I used to watch porn together

I have zero issue with my guy watching porn.

I'm not knocking women if they're against it or anything. like I said I think I'm just a little more laid back.

me either @rintahtah personally I like it when he does. cause he surprises me with new things. hell I'm guilty of watching porn when I don't get any. I'm weird about touching myself. but I'm also reminded daily that I'm loved and that I'm his number one. so I guess that's why I'm laid back.

people freak put I'd rather him do it himself than to step out and find it somewhere.. hell I still watch porn 😅😅😅

@xbbycolletto, Right? Especially during my first trimester I had bleeding so my doctor said no sex No I'm like... oh hey. Where'd that come from? lol I definitely watch it too. I even send him some stuff when I find something good. Yea, I think it definitely matters on the relationship. If he becomes obsessed with it and begins ignoring the woman, that is an issue

@mazeyy09, yes! I'd rather him get in the mood from watching a video than running out on fb or out in town physically doing it. my man can find a porn star sexy. I'd be lying if I said they aren't sexy. and the chances of him getting that particular woman? slim to none. I swear I'm just laid back as hell when it comes to this kind of stuff. but if he did cheat. well good riddance. you wanna entertain another woman. please let me know so I can get out the picture. lol that's how I am as a female

I'm not able to have sex because of the problems I'm having so I told my hubby to masturbate. I won't let him watch porn because I don't want him getting off by looking at other women (I'm very self conscious 😕). I do however give him other things to look at 😜

I told my man to go watch porn and take care of his self when I wasn't wanting sex and he said he didn't like porn I'm like umm ok lol

@rintahtah, that's how I feel too. personally I see it as an issue if it becomes addicting. but if it's a just when he's needing some and I'm not in the mood type of thing. I'll hand you your lotion and some Kleenex. hell I'll find the porn video FOR you. lol

that's what I'm saying I would rather him do that than to go to the strip club some of those girls are gross if you need help letting it out do what you need to do but once you step out I step away that's when it becomes a problem

yeah, I agree @mazeyy09 I'm not self conscious at all. I know for some women thats the case. but I also am reminded by my boyfriends friends and coworkers that he's always respectful of me. alwayd bragging about me and us as a couple and that he's all about me and our child. so I guess that's why I'm so laid back. because I know his intentions as a whole.

it doesn't bother me at all

agreed a secure relationship makes you feel more comfortable be your SO being able to do the things that he wants

I'm sorry but I'm laughing at the first few comments that say porn is damaging to a relationship and soul 😂😂 I worked in the adult industry before getting pregnant so porn is just another part of my relationship/life. I'd rather my boyfriend watch porn and masturbate than text some bitch or cheat on me. Plus all that built up tension and not letting your dude let it out is what's damaging, most guys are sensitive in that aspect.

@tiffanigypsy8, Yesss. girl, agreed