Has anyone ever had labia tears from labor? I didn't even know that was possible until I gave birth...😳 I'm 9 days postpartum and the last 2 days my pain has become worse than directly after delivery. I know my midwife only stitched one side, so they wouldn't heal together, and didn't know if my pain was just increasing because it's all healing or what.
@newmommy445, I honestly have no idea, lol. I've read that it does But didn't do it personally. My perineum didn't tear, just my labia 😣 Can't hurt to Do it in case it does work lol
@valerie_jean, Yes I have that feeling as well. super uncomfortable. I just told my husband that it feels like someone crotch kicked me 😞
@kmally oh thank you!! I will definitely message you! that's exactly what tore 😣
off topic question y'all, does massaging the perennial area before labor help? I read it in what to expect when you're expecting
Yes! My inner/secondary labia tore terribly. Had no idea it was possible and haven't found anyone else with that problem!! If you want, send me a message! It took me a long time to recover because of it 😩
Mine didn't tear, but it felt like it! Up towards my clitorous it was super super sensitive and felt like it was bruised for weeks. Like someone literally drop kicked me there.
I do love the way people say you will know when your in labour and having contractions well I will be honest I didn't know and my pains weren't that severe till I was fully dilated I'm sure everyone has different pain levels

I just want to share my tattoo I got for Scarlett, it has healed now so looks a lot better.
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Yes! That's the only place that tore and took so long to heal 😩 all of my friends that had babes around the same time could at least walk normal. Not me 😥