prayers.. my son was also premie and until he went to nicu he has his iv in his head as well, it's easier for them to find a vein.... it is hard to see them like that..... I wish your bf was a bit more supportive as you are going to be a mess for a bit since you just had a baby and hormones are crazy (can be for a year) and are there alone.... keep your head up mama you got this

Being in the nicu is extremely hard. I've had 2 preemies and I always felt like it wasn't as hard for their dad as it as for me. I was the one who carried them the last 7 months and for him it's like they were still there. I would get upset over every little thing they had done and he was supportive but not understanding. You have every right to be upset over what's happening to your baby especially after your body just want through so much trauma. Keeping your feelings bottled up won't help anything. Good luck and I hope have a very short nicu stay! @sierra.yasmin

@sierra.yasmin, thank you so much

@tjmommy, Alright. Thank you for your advice ! I'll pray for you and your baby too!

you right please don't stress yourself just pray that how it is with me I have serve anemia and I lost alot of blood when I had my baby a week ago and it was hard for them to stop my bleeding and now I find myself so depressed and no one understand I almost lost my life me and my baby so just stay prayed up

@nadiahuynh, Thank you !'

Cry if you need to its better than keeping it all balled up inside. Stay strong for your son. Praying for you two 🙏🏼💙

@tjmommy, thank you ! I had a seizure due to high blood pressure. that's why he gets mad when i get upset because he thinks its gonna set one off. but him being a jerk just makes it harder to calm down.

I praying for you and your baby all mines was premature and I know your pain