so my SO and I decided that I was gonna be a stay at home mom when the baby gets here. part of me…

being a stay at home mommy is great if you have that option but girl ur young just asking why can't you physically do it

this pregnancy has taken a huge toll on my body, I get super dizzy really fast and have issues breathing if I'm not sitting down periodically. I am always hydrated and eat healthy regularly so it's just my body at this point lol @marikass1012

@lexilulu, you may decide that you wanna go back to work eventually but being a stay at home mom is great for your baby. Childcare is expensive so the longer you can gold off from that, the better :) I hope you start feeling better!

*hold

I plan on going to college and starting a career when my child is around 4 or 5 going into school @gab044

hopefully all of that with sqq

sqq? @marikass1012

good idea! by the time my maternity leave is up I'll be starting school thankfully I found a degree I like that's exclusively online so I can be home with my son. I'll mainly be a stay at home mom myself aside from the two days I'll work when my bf is off. My plan is to avoid putting him in childcare unless its a trusted friend or family member. I just don't trust it.

@lexilulu,

im the same way i wanna do schooling from home but I don't know what I should study for lol that's been my only issue now @gab044

@lexilulu, girl I'm 21 and I just now decided a few months ago Lol. I figured I'd have a degree with a good salary under my belt as a back up plan if being a yoga instructor, dog trainer, or musician basically anything fun doesn't work out for me.

Just remember if anything were to happen (break up/divorce) you would have zero credit or anything from not working. I know that sounds terrible but that's what my parents tell me lol I'm Ike ok thanks guys for thinking the worst

no your completely right my SO and I have already sat down and talked about what we would do if we didn't work out. he's the type that thinks a baby is best with his mother if we were to split and said he would get his own place and let me stay where I'm at. he's a lot older than me which helps a lot @edomke

when me being a stay at home mom came up I dreaded it. I love to work and being home all day would suck for especially since my son would be born just in time for winter so going out would be limited. But staying at home has helped me take my college online course a whole lot & my son keeps me so entertained so there's never a dull moment haha!