I found out yesterday by 3d ultrasound I'm having a boy. Am I a horrible mother because I actually wanted to cry because I wanted a girl so bad?? I actually have cried a few times but feel horrible about it. Obviously I love this baby no matter what and as long as he's healthy is what matters but I just really...really wanted a girl this time.
I really wanted a girl but when they told me it was a boy I was happy. I've raised a boy so I'm familiar with everything that's going to happen and to be honest I would have no idea what to do if poop got all up in her private if it was a girl. Plus boys in my opinion are much easier :)
don't feel bad I cried when I found out I was having another girl, now I'm happy because I'm not sure if I could handle a boy lpl
there is such a thing as gender disappointment. it's okay to have those feelings.
Nah you're not a horrible mother. just think of how much easier the teenage years are going to be! no buying makeup or dealing with mean girls or with the mean stages. think about how your boys will have each other. maybe next time you will get your little girl. Just be happy.
My fiancee and I both were a little disappointed about having a boy. We both really really wanted a girl. But we still love our little guy more than anything.