So I'm kind of stuck. My baby's father, who I was with for 7 years, keeps pushing for me to meet his…
So I'm kind of stuck. My baby's father, who I was with for 7 years, keeps pushing for me to meet his new girlfriend. They've only been dating for a few months. In the beginning of my pregnancy he was around more and went to all my appt with me. Even if we were broken up we were still very good friends and there for each other when needed. But every since he met her it seems like she's more of a priority than me & the baby. He hasn't been coming to the classes or appt with me. And now that my due date is a month away he's trying to make more of an effort to check up on me and the baby. He just texted me asking if I thought more about meeting her so I would be comfortable with her being around my baby. I really don't want to meet her or for my child to even be around her.
Monica·
I would feel the same way! I really hop for the baby's sake that he doesn't continue to put her first! I'm sure it's been difficult for you😔
Cristal Miranda·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Ugh I would feel the same way as you Hun I couldn't do it honestly
rgaine·
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Wonder how he'd feel if you introduced him to a new boyfriend since you want him to be comfortable with the fact that your baby will be around him a lot... Ya know, since he's not really been involved. Lol
Jemellyn·
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@2016amaro, I hope so! Especially since baby girl will be here very soon. I'm hoping when she's actually physically here things change but if not screw him. Just sad that after everything we have been through he'd choose her over his own baby. I mean it's not like I'm forcing us to be together even though part of me still wants us to be a family. I just want him more involved. @2016amaro
Jemellyn·
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I'm not sure if I can do it either. I haven't replied to him. I mean this is my child and I already have to share her with another woman? @miranda4
Jemellyn·
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Exactly! He's being really selfish right now. They both are. I've told him dating right now shouldn't even be an option right now. It's already complicated as it is. I mean when the baby is here and a little older then fine but I'm still pregnant @rgaine
Cristal Miranda·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Yes it's beyond hard and wrong in so many ways maybe you should tell him how you feel and be like I'm just not ready for all this