If that's how you feel, you definitely need to tell whoever is making you feel this way to (with all due respect) back tf off! That is your baby, you carried and birthed the child, it is half your blood, and no one has the right to make you feel like a bad mother because you AREN'T. This is your time to be tough and stand up for yourself as well as your baby, because to your little angel, you are the MOST important person in the WORLD! You are mama!!! No one can ever replace you, don't you EVER forget girl!!!!

Well you are the parent. You have the day not them. What are they saying ?!

@hamman13,

I think everyone has that thought every once in a while, don't beat yourself up... I think the only real "bad parents" are the really abusive/neglectful kind!

I feel like I have no rights no say. like my son isn't mine. like I had him for everyone else. my heart hurts so much.

Aww why do you say that ?