Alright ladies. I need help. Badly. My son will be two tomorrow (👏😭) but he is so violent. He thinks its ok to hit me, throw things at me, slam me in doors, he laughs at me when I tell him no and trys so hard to physically hurt me. He even pulled a dresser drawer out on my foot and now it is swollen and black and blue. I think he re broke something I had broke by a horse. I've had horses step on me and it hasn't bothered me. (he is like this with others too. Adults and children). Time out doesn't work, explaining why its bad doesn't hurt, I even tried a spanking one time and that didn't work. He went right back and did it again. People tell me his just being a kid but for a two year old I think that's a little wrong. No violent play, no violent movies, nothing like that. I can not figure out where he learned this behavior. Any ideas
If I take toys he destroys stuff and he barely eats so I can't take food away
@proudmomma14 omg yea I would say hit him back too, but not so hard where it leaves a mark. don't want that doc reporting something false.😒 maybe take all his toys from his room? skip a favorite meal until he cries for it, and make it known that feeling he's having is what it's like when he hurts mommy.
Pops don't work. He cry's for a second grabs the nearest object and throws it or hits you with it. AMD for a two year old he has left bruises on me.
With my little sister when she first turned 2, she'll be 3 in may, we would give her a pop and say no anytime she hit back or bit or anything and she stopped. In my opinion it's ok to discipline with pops. There's a difference between abuse and discipline. And honestly I think that's what's wrong with a lot of youth today😒. Not starting anything it's just an opinion.
Bit him back his Dr seen it I told him what happened and why I did it he told e if he seen it again he was reporting me for child abuse. He literally made me cry real tears lastnight and he just laughed at me.
My son was like that when he was that age he would try and bite me. I would bite his ass back so he knew how much it hurt. He stopped doing that to me. Boys are rough you have to teach him not to act like that towards you. If he hits you just cry like he really hurt you then he will realize that he is hurting you.
@proudmomma14, just try to ignore him... my oldest daughter is like that.... I ignore it and not say anything she comes up to me and kisses me (her way to say sorry)
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I think my water broke guys ... its not like gushing out but its slow leaking
So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him to be punish for hurting me. What should i do? I have naked pics of him i want to put out. I want to call his job get him fired. Im so hurt. This is his first child n he dont even want to be here for the birth. 4 damn yrs n it come to this. What should i do? I want Revenge

Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
so my mom was telling me I should give my son baby cereal at night because at night is when he wants to eat the most. I haven't done it yet but who thinks its okay I was thinking doing it when he's two months!??
my little brother growing up was like this, to the point of hurting himself if he couldn't get at you, he would be put in his room and he would throw his toys at the door while screaming so my mom would reach in and pull the toy out untill he had nothing left to throw. it was this phase it sucked and we just had to get through it. my dad was a spanker and he still was a terrible two year old. maybe clear out his room and when he misbehaves stick him in there maybe he will eventually get the message just be consistent. even if he hit and then says sorry. nope sorry you hit you go to your room. my little brother when he had nothing left would beat his head on the carpeted floor untill he had little blood speck on his forehead some two year old are just crazy... he's a pretty normal adult now lol hopefully it will pass for you too