Alright ladies. I need help. Badly. My son will be two tomorrow (👏😭) but he is so violent. He thinks its ok to hit me, throw things at me, slam me in doors, he laughs at me when I tell him no and trys so hard to physically hurt me. He even pulled a dresser drawer out on my foot and now it is swollen and black and blue. I think he re broke something I had broke by a horse. I've had horses step on me and it hasn't bothered me. (he is like this with others too. Adults and children). Time out doesn't work, explaining why its bad doesn't hurt, I even tried a spanking one time and that didn't work. He went right back and did it again. People tell me his just being a kid but for a two year old I think that's a little wrong. No violent play, no violent movies, nothing like that. I can not figure out where he learned this behavior. Any ideas
If I take toys he destroys stuff and he barely eats so I can't take food away
@proudmomma14 omg yea I would say hit him back too, but not so hard where it leaves a mark. don't want that doc reporting something false.😒 maybe take all his toys from his room? skip a favorite meal until he cries for it, and make it known that feeling he's having is what it's like when he hurts mommy.
Pops don't work. He cry's for a second grabs the nearest object and throws it or hits you with it. AMD for a two year old he has left bruises on me.
With my little sister when she first turned 2, she'll be 3 in may, we would give her a pop and say no anytime she hit back or bit or anything and she stopped. In my opinion it's ok to discipline with pops. There's a difference between abuse and discipline. And honestly I think that's what's wrong with a lot of youth today😒. Not starting anything it's just an opinion.
Bit him back his Dr seen it I told him what happened and why I did it he told e if he seen it again he was reporting me for child abuse. He literally made me cry real tears lastnight and he just laughed at me.
My son was like that when he was that age he would try and bite me. I would bite his ass back so he knew how much it hurt. He stopped doing that to me. Boys are rough you have to teach him not to act like that towards you. If he hits you just cry like he really hurt you then he will realize that he is hurting you.
@proudmomma14, just try to ignore him... my oldest daughter is like that.... I ignore it and not say anything she comes up to me and kisses me (her way to say sorry)
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
need suggestions....
So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Religion Conspiracy/Theory
**This is not to bash peoples religion and beliefs but to talk about our own theories and ideas** I would like to discuss a certain topic that came to mind after talking to my SO. I know some of you ladies like a good conspiracy talk so i would like to have a good discussion and hear thoughts of others. So back story my SO friends got very offended when he mentioned not believing in god or religion and it got me thinking. Is religion a failing form of goverment cont...

Y’all please please be careful and monitor what these babies are watching on YouTube thank god my baby didn’t understand what the thing was saying he showed me the phone and said “scary mama” I think continued to listen to what the thing was saying and I was livid and horrified it was explaining to my son how to kill the whole family while everyone was asleep
my little brother growing up was like this, to the point of hurting himself if he couldn't get at you, he would be put in his room and he would throw his toys at the door while screaming so my mom would reach in and pull the toy out untill he had nothing left to throw. it was this phase it sucked and we just had to get through it. my dad was a spanker and he still was a terrible two year old. maybe clear out his room and when he misbehaves stick him in there maybe he will eventually get the message just be consistent. even if he hit and then says sorry. nope sorry you hit you go to your room. my little brother when he had nothing left would beat his head on the carpeted floor untill he had little blood speck on his forehead some two year old are just crazy... he's a pretty normal adult now lol hopefully it will pass for you too