Can't stand people at work asking me how I'm going to cope with a baby at my age. I'm 21 years old, hardly very young compared to some ladies. Why should age define a good mother? Really grinds my gears 😤
I still live with my mum and I am really greatful for the support I have :) I'm not asking my mum to take over any motherly duties! That is my job! But I know she is there whenever I need her :) I turned 20, 2 months after I found out I was preganant! It wasn't planned and I would've liked to have my own place etc with my partner before we even considered trying for a baby :) Age doesn't define if you are going to be a good mother or not. Because I've seen it all...older parents that are good parents...and also some that are bad...and also young good and and bad ones x x
I'm 18, almost 19. I got it all the time while at work. I still live with my mum which is a bonus. I was still in college when I fell pregnant but I was also working full time. The minute I finished college I continued to work full time and found another job. People base how good of a mum you are on your age which isn't right,
You're ancient to only just be having a baby at 21 lol all my friends had their babies whilst we were sill in school and leaning school haha I'm the late developer at almost 25. I don't know why people think certain ages are too young. No one said shit when my grandparents got married at 18 and had my mom at 19 lol x
I'm 18, fell pregnant at 17 and have a 2 month old daughter & I'm a brilliant mom. Hate when people assume you won't manage just because you're young x
The same way other mothers do... Such a stupid question!!!! I had my first at 19 and I was a single mom and working full time... People always stuffing their nose I'm other people's business... You'll be awesome never mind them xx
I think unless your married and over 25 then everyone has an voice on what you can and can't do with your own womb 😂 I tell you what does annoy me is young who get oregannt to keep a bloke or get a flat and live of my tax money then il have a voice on that but I think regardless off age etc what the hell does it have to do with anyone unless there is a child at risk! We were getting married and everyone's like oh your never gonna be able to afford to do that now! It don't help I look younger than what I am I feel everyone judges me 🙈😂 xx
I wish people would keep their noses out of other people's business. I'm in the same situation as you @holliesinead I have been with my OH for 5 years now and we both work full time etc. At least we are working though and have a house together and extra income each month. Some people still live at home with parents and manage with children. It's nobody's business but your own and it's your life so they can suck on those nuts! 🖕🏻x
I have the same thing I'm 22, been with OH since was 16 and engaged we both have good jobs, and travelled ideally we would of liked to wait a few years but the amount of time I've heard omg Your so young how are you gonna afford it? You haven't lived enough! Where are you going to live ? are you going to go back to work ? And so on it drives me mad! There's never a right age/ time to have children it just happens ! X