Young moms.. how do you stand it when you tell people the big news and they act disappointed in you like you're to young…

I'm 27 and that still happens. Brush it off and keep going

same here girl, I just focus on what a blessing the baby is regardless of what anyone else thinks and how you just get to spend those few extra years already with a purpose and responsibility instead of clubbing, partying, drinking.. etc 😊😊 makes me feel better

I found out that I was pregnant at 18 and, naturally, no one was happy about it.

My entire pregnancy was miserable. All that I ever did was cry, because I knew that everyone was disappointed in me.

Don't be like me. Enjoy your pregnancy and forget what everyone else says. Shame on them for making this joyous time hard on you .

I was a young mom my so and I were together 3 months when I got pregnant with mia best advice I can give you is if u do t think there gunna react nice to you then don't let them have a chance to be nice let them know ypu made this decision your happy with it and it's going to be like this point blank I have a very judgemental family and that's how they were with me some were dossappinted and got over it and are perfectly fine Now as for the others Just let them kno and then step them out of your life put them on the back burner u need to be sarounded by nice loving people at this time in your life.

A couple people were initially disappointed & I just told them "well it's too late & this is a happy thing for me & my fiancé whether you like it or not" & they all came around. Even if they hadn't my baby is a blessing & I wouldn't let anyone's personal feelings interfere with this moment in my life

honey you should try being not so young, divorced with one child from you marriage, and pregnant with another child by your boyfriend and have your grandmother among a few other family members do nothing but bad mouth you and act like they are disappointed and ashamed of you. Especially when one of those family members got pregnant when she wasn't married and when you have other family members that have kids out of Wed lock and nothing bad is ever said to them.

Girl, I'm 18 and me and my boyfriend were trying for nearly over a year. Once I pronounced my pregnacy to my family, the only ones who were disappointed and said I'm still too young were my cousins, all girls, who got pregnant at 16, and none have their baby's fathers around anymore. I'm still with my love and we are proud of what we tried a long time for. Don't ever let what people have to say to you get you down 'cause it's your life, accident or not, young or old, if you got your stuff together and you know you're gonna be the best mom you could ever be, their opinions shouldn't matter

As far as negativity goes it's mostly strangers that are a problem for me. All 3 of my babies have been planned and I've been married for all of them but I did have my oldest at 18 and then another at 20 and will have another at 22. We wanted them close in age and we specifically wanted 3 children. My family is great about it parents thrilled about all of their grandkids. My mother in law isn't but she's Satan so whatever. My problem is people who don't even know us assuming that because we are young we are on welfare and irresponsible parents that just want to pop out babies for the benefits. This isn't true at all. We do not get welfare (not that there's anything wrong with it if you need it) and we live on our own and take care of our babies on our own. I don't even get babysitters if I can't take my kids I don't go. But in the end they are strangers and the only people who matter are the ones who love us

I had my first two kids at 18 and 19 they are 7 an 8 now an amazing children. People put me down an talked about me but I showed them.

I just simply said "well I wanted to be young when I had my babies so I could grow with them and be around longer, hopefully" what you do is your business. don't let anyone make you feel like you regret getting pregnant because lord knows, they'll be the ones wanting to see you at the hospital when you have the baby.

My mom was that way with me when I had my daughter at 20 and now I'm pregnant again and I'm sure she isn't going to be to pleased but she sees what a great mother I am so she calmed down and loves my daughter to death so I'm sure it will be the same with this baby , as for other people I just ignore them it's not there life and if they can't be positive and happy for me I don't need to talk to them