I'm having a meltdown this postpartum shit is hitting me hard , I'm very overwhelmed with all this like taking care of a baby is not a easy job but according to my husband since he works his jobs harder then mine ... when I'm the one that has to breast pump every two to three hours and makes sure she's bathed and has clean clothes on and make sure she's comfortable like being a mother is not easy at all . I said I was overwhelmed I didn't say I was over whelmed because of having her but to him that's what his ears heard . he comes home from work and watches TV. he doesn't wake up in between the night to feed her or change her diaper or put her to sleep and his job is his excuse. Yeah he works to pay for our bills and our house and I appreciate that so so so much but I'm the one taking care of your daughter.
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You should talk to him. on his day off if give the baby to him a full 24 hours so he can understand you. You just do the pumping since he obviously cant and remind him your saving him the work of pumping. My bf wouldnt believe me til he finally did it he didnt even last 4 hours now on his days off hell help mefor 2 hours just to catch up on sleep or hell feed him, change his diaper and help me clean
something is wrong! her dad never came home last night! he would never do that knowing he's gotta watch his daughter while I'm at work... glad I can bring her to my job and my parents will come get her but I'm so scared right now!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Got into a huge fight with the SO Sunday. He tells me out of frustration that he doesn't care when I tell him I'm tired when I "don't have a job" ig taking care of our daughter an two dogs isn't enough of a job. While I do laundry an crap. An tell me he's tired all the time an he works I don't. An he yelled at me for accidentally knocking over her medicine bottle. An I looked at his phone an he told like 3 people we were done an told his cousin he'd get a lawyer an take her away from me. I can't...
Dad's FB Video!!
Did anyone see that video a dad posted on his daughters FB page? He saw a post she made where she bashed her parents and cursed them, called them lazy and told them they should pay her for stuff she did around the house... So he called her out on it and put the video on her page!! Sorry if I missed a post already about this already, but I just saw the video and IT WAS AWESOME!!! Hahahhaa!
I've already tried