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MOMMIES QUESTIONS I've been gone for a few months but I'm back. a lot has happened. my baby daddy and I split. he got…

MOMMIES QUESTIONS

I've been gone for a few months but I'm back. a lot has happened. my baby daddy and I split. he got with someone else and so did i. well we went to court cause I got a restraining order on him but the permanent one was denied. long story short I'm living with people who are "friends" and this woman is HORRIBLE. She treats me like SHIT and like I'm not my daughters mom. like I'm just her babysitter. my baby daddy and I worked things out because I was right and that bitch he was "with" just used him. so I have a couple questions

1) Am I wrong to be so upset still that he slept with her....before her I was the only girl he ever slept with

2) anyone ever have someone treat them so bad?

3) I keep having pregnancy scares...I'm thinking of getting my tubes tied..good or bad?

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justinjrsmommy

Carol Burrough

Мама сына (1 год)

Were you and him broke up when he slept with her?

arabellas.mommy

Gillian

Мама дочки-младенца

@justinjrsmommy, yes so I wasn't like freaking out or anything and I haven't. but it just hurts cause it meant a lot. I took his virginity and I knew if he slept with her he'd care more and I KNEW she was just using him.

justinjrsmommy

Carol Burrough

Мама сына (1 год)

I'm sorry but that's not a reason to be mad at him.

lucasmomma

Amanda

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are you sure you wanna get your tubes tied?? no more babies at all. unless you have them untied. i think you should be okay with the fact that he was with someone else just simply because yall werent together. if yall were then NO! i know it may take some time to deal with it but i think it should be something you try to let go of.

justinjrsmommy

Carol Burrough

Мама сына (1 год)

@lucasmomma, she could get them clamped. that's what I thought about doing. also ive heard of them coming untied on their own.

arabellas.mommy

Gillian

Мама дочки-младенца

@lucasmomma, I'm not mad at him it just hurts picturing him with another girl. and I just can't keep this up. I want another baby so bad but I know its not a good time :( I don't want something permanent but birth control is horrible for me @justinjrsmommy

justinjrsmommy

Carol Burrough

Мама сына (1 год)

That's not permanent. It's completely reversible.

arabellas.mommy

Gillian

Мама дочки-младенца

tubes tied or clamped? @justinjrsmommy

justinjrsmommy

Carol Burrough

Мама сына (1 год)

well if you tie and burn then it's permanent. if you just tie you're risking them coming untied. if you clamp that's not permanent.

suddymaya

Maya

Мама дочки-младенца

consider getting an iud

arabellas.mommy

Gillian

Мама дочки-младенца

I had one and it fell out @suddymaya

suddymaya

Maya

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@arabellas.mommy oh wow that's not good...

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

so I need some advice, I'm currently pregnant from a man who is married with a ten year old. he says he married her…

so I need some advice, I'm currently pregnant from a man who is married with a ten year old. he says he married her because they were young and how he was raised that if you get someone pregnant you have to buckle down and be a man. now that I'm pregnant he says my child has to be a secret. no family from his side and none from myself because I have no family. I feel like my child is coming into this world like a burden from him. and I have no respect from my kids father . even worse he sleeps over his wife's house more that I'm pregnant and I got us our own place than when we were crashing on his ex girls house. I just feel like my child is getting the shit end of the stick and as a mother I feel like a piece of shit. I don't know what to do he doesn't treat me right. lives of off my minimum wage job. I have mental problems so people leaving my life causes long term trauma. so I don't know what I'd do if he weren't around . but he's not a positive influence and I'm expecting my first child.