Hello fellow Preggies, I have a question. Did any of you ladies struggled with someone or a couple…

Hello fellow Preggies, I have a question. Did any of you ladies struggled with someone or a couple people trying to tell you what to do with your baby and criticising you on everything and how you do things with your baby?, If do how'd you handled it?. I keep having this same problem since my baby was born ( and my baby is about to be 1 next month, technically she's 8 months because she was born 3 months earlier) with my mother and older sister. I keep trying to tell them to back off in a nice way since I don't want to hurt their feelings ( although they sometimes don't have a problem hurting mines) but for one my older sister has no kids, has NEVER dealt with babies so it really bothers me when she tries to criticize. And as for my mother, I have tried telling her she already raised her kids her way so now let me do things my way with my daughter but she seems not to get the memo. It's really frustrating me.