I get it! We were really torn for awhile (I was) because we have our wedding in Sept 2017....but I finally caved and told him we can actively try for a few months and if it happens than I'll be ecstatic! If it doesn't happen though in the next few months we will have to stop trying until after the wedding. I definitely need the time to loose the baby weight!

@babylove15,

my son is 10 months, and I mean... we aren't doing anything to prevent another pregnancy... but my boyfriend isn't that fertile lol. but I feel like whenever I'm meant to have another baby it'll happen. he wants another one... I'm kinda torn

I totally understand! We are in the same boat, but we are deciding to just go for it! She is 7.5 months now, so they will be roughly 18m apart if everything works out perfectly the first time around 😉

how old is your first? I'm scared to have them close in age... but at the same time I want them close in age .. if that makes sense lol @babylove15

We just decided to start trying for #2 and we are super excited!