Is it bad that I get mad when my mom says she's going to take over my baby and cuddle with him so I…

My mother in law is always telling me that she's going to come and take the baby off my hands. I get so angry. But mostly because I wouldn't trust my little girl to be alone with her for even a second. But it's also like... I haven't even had her and you're already talking about taking her away? No thank you lol

Thats exactly how I feel. Luckily my mom would be here (I don't trust to have him at her house at all) but still, this is my deal! I think I can handle it. It would be nice to have rest but I want the first days to be with him. My mom also can't handle taking care of herself so I don't know if I can trust her to take care of my child. Sad but true.... @autumn

I'd give my mom a piece of my mind if she told me that

I tell her it's not happening but she tells me otherwise. She acts like it's her baby. It drive me nuts.... if it gets out of hand I will flip out on her. I want to do this myself! @arijane316

like I tell other mommas, 1) she had her chance with her kids, it's your turn. 2) it's your baby, not hers

I told my mother in law she could be there for delivery but couldn't stay with me until my hubby went back to work for this reason!