mommy of two girls expecting twins now! I've had both my daughters vaginally and had epidurals with both. the first girl went great the second the epidural didn't take and I felt everything. now I'm going to have to have a csection with my twins and I am more afraid of that then I was giving birth to them vaginal. you will be okay for me the contractions were worse than the actual labor. hope it goes great keep your head up!

@mia_ivana, thats understandable, but I mean its worth it in the end.. I tore with my 1st.. He was the only vaginal birth I had.. & they stitched me up right there it wasn't too bad

I cussed the nurse out. She never came back into my room. But it was all worth it in the end. Now I have a attitude stricken almost 3 year old.

@lex140, omg I would have died and been super mad at the hospital

Well I was due February 14th and two weeks later she wasn't trying to make any appearance so they induced me on the morning of the 28th.. Well everything was fine and progressing until the nurse on duty just stopped coming in to check on everything until I finally just hit the button as many times as I could to get someone in the room because I could feel her crowning as I was laying there in bed( 18 hours later) and she came in and told me I was a first time mother and didn't know what I was talking about ect.. Well I guess what happened is she started to rip me from the second that she descended down and they just didn't catch it so she ended up ripping me from my cervix all the way down to the opening of my vagina. Don't be scared though, I know it's a scary story.

@lex140, 54 yikes what happened

I'm not going to lie to you, I had an all natural birth with my first daughter and ended up needing 54 stiches by the end of it. But after you have that little baby in your arms, none of it matters!

@lizzette, I feel ya on that one

I'm freaking out about everything like the tearing and the epidural I'm just like a big huge sissy.@mia_ivana,

@mia_ivana, I'll be honest I tore. but I didn't feel it because of the epidural. the schedule where very uncomfortable though

@mrscolon, @mama_mara I think Im so scared because I have this fear of tearing

@lizzette, I know the feeling Im due March 10th and she is my first im freaking out I have six weeks from tomorrow

I'm baby is due April 8th and I'm so very scared too she is my first c:

@gabbielou, yaaassss lol I'm scared af to have my baby in April just cus I know ima have to deal with a that again

yep its the healing parts that fucks yu up I swear @mrscolon

@gabbielou, that shit ain't no joke lol healing is a bitch!

ikr @mrscolon

Y'all do not want a c-section trust me! lol

get an epidural hun! lol its the best thing ever! when I was admitted in to L&D I 2as so scared I started shaking after I got to 4 cm I asked for my Epidural and it was magical!

no mam I already asked but unless its an emergency we don't have a choice but to give natural birth 😱😱😱