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Jessika
jessi2328
Jessika
Okay, so the beginning of the month I found out my fiancé had been talking to a girl he used to date. he was bringing up their past and making comments that didn't sound "friendly". I comforted him and he said he didn't know why he did that and that I am the only one he loves. he deleted and blocked her, but I still have tendencies to check his phone and Facebook. I have been cheated on before. I love him to pieces and we are trying to conceive but I'm just so cared of losing him after. (my 2 daughters have different dad's because of a similar situation). he's been doing good now and I think things are good again, but I'm scared to let my guard down... help?
27.01.2016

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jessi2328
jessi2328
I sat down with him multiple times after confronting him. told him how I felt. he said I made him feel bad and he was very sorry. he was really good the first week of just letting me ask for his phone and not questioning me. I think he understands but I just can't seem to get it out of my head about what he had said. :( We are still TTC and I think it will help cuz he is really good with my daughters and treats them as his own. he kept telling me how he hates to see me cry. and that he never wants to hurt me or make me feel like that ever again.
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kat616
kat616
Maybe talk to him about how you feel. Use "I" statements (ex. I feel that we should have a baby, but I also feel worried...). If he knows how you feel, he can reassure you and then he'll think more about his own actions. These are my thoughts, but you should do what you feel is best. Depending on situation, you may wait 1-2 months before TTC, or you may feel it's right to just trust and go ahead with TTC. :)
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