I'm interviewing midwives and doulas today.
I need help forming questions.
this is my first baby so I don't know what to expect.
I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase? I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Things I never thought I'd say... Until I became a mom:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
ashley smith·
Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (12 нед.)
Choice only does home birth. but don't worry they're amazing. I've met with them last week, my first real appointment is March 8th since I had to wait for my tax return to pay the deposit, but they seem so awesome. I had my first in a hospital and I hated it so I'm super excited about this birth. good luck!
Brianna saultz·
yes!!! thats who I'm meeting with today 😀 and I want a water birth too But am not quite sure about the home part for myself but right on @ashsmith91
ashley smith·
Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (12 нед.)
if you're in Columbus too , are you interviewing CHOICE midwives? that's who I'm going with. home water birth :)
Makayla Magee·
Мама сына (2 года)
And maybe ask if they have kids. Because if they do then I think they have a better understanding of the pain and everything
Brianna saultz·
Yes. I like that idea @makaylabraxx
Makayla Magee·
Мама сына (2 года)
Just go with your gut feeling! Ask them how long they have been doing this, why they do it, what they love most about it. Things that really show you more about them and their experiences