I'm really torn.. my fiancé and I want to have a baby after we buy our home and get married. But my family is against…
I'm really torn.. my fiancé and I want to have a baby after we buy our home and get married. But my family is against the idea because I have a five year old and three year old twins. They will be 8 and 6 when we start trying. These kiddos are from a previous relationship and my fiancé is so good with kids. He doesn't have any biological children of his own. He was in the army for 5 years and did two tours and almost lost his life on the second tour. I think the man deserves a baby of his own. we've been together almost 3 years now and I love him very much, but my family is so opposed to us having a child at ANY POINT. idk how to feel about this :/ Any thoughts?
Katelyn Grant 🎀·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (38 нед.)
It shouldn't matter what your family thinks. If you two are capable and willing to raise another child, then to hell with them! Have as many babies as you want! They're not the ones who have to take care of them, you are! They might not like it now, but after they see the precious bundle of joy and it starts to hit home, then they'll start accepting it.
Melissa Frattinger·
Мама дочки-младенца
if u an ur fiance both want to have a baby I say do it. that's ur decision to make no one can make it but u 2.
Lily Freeman·
В ожидании первенца
your family!
kyla·
Мама сына (4 года)
that's the family u were born to not the one you've chosen to create... if yall want another baby GO FOR IT..
monica·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (31 нед.)
it's ur life and ur relationship who cares wat dey think hell y'all are willing and are capable of rasing the kids. I say have at it ur a great mom and dey would just have to deal with it
Rebecca·
Мама троих детей
Thank you all for the words of encouragement :) My family is very close knit which is why it gets to me that they can't be supportive. My fiancé and I are definitely capable of having and raising another child, we just want to wait a bit. We had a miscarriage a couple years back and decided that we really wanted to get it right if we want to have just one more :)
Bree·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
It's your all life and if you guys decide to have a baby then your family will have to get over it...if they love you they will be happy for you!
Yesenia·
В ожидании первенца
Hun, you got to decide what you both want. Doesn't matter what your family says. You and him are in a relationship 💙. If you both want a baby go ahead.
Bianca·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (22 нед.)
I agree with everyone else, you're raising them so while you can take someone's opinion it's ultimately your decision
Carli Boling·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (40 нед.)
if you guys want a baby have a baby! don't let your family decide for you.....