So what do you do if your baby's father family doesn't like you or associate with you but the MIL wants her middle name…
So what do you do if your baby's father family doesn't like you or associate with you but the MIL wants her middle name to be her middle name? He also wants the last name 😴😴
Ps. I don't even care for any of them I'm just gonna do right and let HIM see her when he needs to. I'm trying to move on in life.
Becky Blue·
tell her no and that its your decision.
Annamarie·
it's your call. If I didn't like the person I wouldn't name my child it though. Your the one who has to live with hearing a name you don't like. It's your child not the mil so name what you like@lynnx1800
Camryn's Mommy·
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@adriannasmomy, @angelkisses Ok, thanks what do you think about me giving her his last name, even though I don't want to will that be unfair?
Becky Blue·
nothing is unfair, your growing this child and if shes mistreatimg you she obvi dont care about the childs wellbeing. stress is bad for the baby
Annamarie·
if he's the father I think it should be his last name but again that's up to you. I think he could fight you in court for that ands would probably win so that's not a good fight for you but the mil should back off. ;) @lynnx1800
Camryn's Mommy·
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He could fight in court over a last name? Wow its not just his baby though so I wouldn't get how that would be acceptable and we're not married so that should count for something to.. @angelkisses
Annamarie·
Each sta ate is different hun but if he can prove paternity them legally he can fight you on that. Some states don't even give you a choice. If his name is on the b.c then that's the baby's last name. @lynnx1800
Sammi·
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@lynnx1800, you don't have to give the baby his last name. Both of my friends weren't with their baby daddy when the baby was born so they put their last names. If you put his last name then he has rights. My friend didn't put his last name or even on the birth certificate and he tried to get full custody of the baby and couldn't because of those two things. It's up to you. You are the child's mother.
Tiara·
Мама двоих (4 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
Don't worry about them, the baby is between you and your man not them. And if they're not good people and they're doing nothing but causing chaos and interrupting your families peace then cut them out . Baby doesn't need to be around that anyways (going through this right now) and as for MIL that decision is completely up to you . Tell her if you're not interested , politely say thanks for the suggestion. MIL can be very very controlling . And I'm not sure of the relationship with your man but if he's been a a great man and supportive father and proved he is capable I would consider giving the baby his last name or even hyphening it and giving the baby both? Completely up to you