So, I know there are probably a lot of ladies here who have blended families since they are pretty common. I will start by saying this is just a vent post, and I mean no offense to anyone.
I am married to the love of ny life, and we are expecting a baby girl in May. I also have two step kids who I love very much. My problem is their mom lately has been expecting so much from my husband and I. I feel like she is trying to make me feel/think that her and her kids are more important than me and this baby. I have been bending over backwards lately, and she keeps pushing. Today was supposed to be me and husband's day together. (it only happens like once a month) And both of the kids stayed home sick and she has to work. So, she played the kid card and said if we loved them we would take them for the day so she doesn't have to find a sitter. I wouldn't care if this hasn't been happening so much lately. I MISS MY HUSBAND! We can't even have dinner together lately without her constantly blowing up our phones. I just wish she would stick to the plan they have had in place for 6 years now, so that we can spend some time together. She is even getting irritated with us when I have an appointment and we can't just leave it. I'm just so frustrated :( What will happen when this baby gets here? I don't want her to feel like her daddy is never there for her.
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the kids equal sure but it seem like she pushing u over u need to stand ur ground and tell ur husband how u feel either he put her in her place or u do but this court thing is to get y'all to do what she want ya to do if she was going to take him to court she would have been done that look and listen what things she says and figure it out shes all talk all those kids will be equal regardless unless she just act stupid but u have to do is get a back bone
I look at the kids as equal, and always will...but she just makes it hard to stick it out.
We have tried not answering, and she just keeps calling. Or she just shows up at our house with the kids. There have also been times she threatened to take him to court because we couldn't take them an extra day. I'm just at my wits end right now. He takes her for a grain of salt, but it hurts me so badly. She has always made me feel lie I don't matter, but since I got pregnant she says stuff to me like, "I don't want my kids pushed aside" Or "you need to understand that they came first, and you have to keep it that way." I know she has always had control issues, but I feel like she expects my husband to treat this baby as less than his first two. And that's not fair to me or my baby girl. I'm too hormonal lately for this crap lol @ladisnuggles09
I have a blended family as well and I'm the child mother but I don't act like that but to me seem like she trying everything to come between y'all and y'all not have time understandable that his children bit she need to take some time with her kids and be understandable that a child is coming into this world soon ..... but every time the phone rings u do not have to answer all the time and if u do let her know y'all have plans to do something what is it going to hurt her to keep her own kids nothing
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