Work status*I was under the impression you could/should work up until 2 weeks before your due date.My boss gave the ok, so i gave my notice for maternity leave.Now HR is telling me I abandoned my job? Anyone know about this?
I think your supposed to have your Drs release you to go on maternity leave which can begin as early as 36 weeks unless medically necessary for earlier but 36 weeks is average but you are supposed to go through your Drs and have them do the disability papers which you would give to your job and hr department if you simply told your job you were going on maternity leave with nothing from the Drs it's possible they would consider it job abandonment but maybe you can fight it and have your dr back date it to the last date you worked and try to communicate with hr
abandoned??? that would mean you were a no call no show but you told The you weren't going in right? I hate jobs. can you get a Dr note?
idk. i am staying at my job until my baby is here. most jobs prefer you stay unless doctor says otherwise.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
It's just the job requirements that I can't preform.I am on my feet the entire time coaching autistic teens.Most of them also have physical disabilities.After about a half hour I start getting cramps, my ankles look like elephant legs and hurt.If one of the students has a seizure, or there balance is off I am responsible.I can't be being pregnant.So, Thursday I am going to have my doctor write a very detailed letter to HR as to why I cannot preform the duties without risk to me and my baby.If that's not good enough then goodbye job!