Just here to rant! Ugh, my husband is getting on my last nerve. He's been such an asshole bitch lately. Like he doesn't take this pregnancy in consideration at all sometimes. Unfortunately he just got laid off recently and I understand he feels bad and all but doesn't mean he gets to treat me like he does. He's always playing his stupid Xbox, on his damn phone, talking to other females, demanding for me to cook and etc while he sits on his ass all damn day. I go to work and come back to home tired and exhausted. Lately I haven't been feeling well and he doesn't even give a damn care. He can be so damn mean sometimes. I'm in my last trimester and it's not easy. I'm so overwhelmed, tired, lonely, emotional, not feeling well, exhausted, drained, feeling unloved, not protected, and not wanted. I'm just done. Beautiful mommies i don't know what to do anymore. 😔😪
alright anyone in this situation im just saying im mean so id have to smack the shit out if him acting like that, (you should pee in his shoes) not like he gets up and goes to work all day
@jelizabeth, a letter does sounds better then speaking to him. And your lucky and blessed to have your parents there for you.
@mango44, yeah your absolutely right. I gonna talk to him and hopefully he'll listen
I can't offer any advice really as I'm in a similar situation. Just tell him straight up how you feel and that things need to change. I wrote all of my issues with my SO in a letter and gave it to him and told him when he was ready to address everything there we could talk and I've been spending the past few weeks with my parents. Doesn't help that I'm like two seconds away from leaving him at all times but hey. Whatever you gotta do to stay sane and less stressed you do. You got this momma❤️
boo listen, while i can see him loosing his job as a major shot to his ego & manhood, that's unacceptable. he grown, you grown. when you leave for work, take that fool house key and make his ass leave too to look for jobs. yall have a child on the way that his xbox, cell phone, or these bitches are gonna take care of. unless any of the above mentioned plans on employing his ass, put your foot down bc the last thing u want is to be taking care of home, a baby, and a grown ass man. hell no. he better start pulling his weight. if he wanna be a house wife he better go find him somebody who won't mind him being their bitch. otherwise he better get his shit together. & bc people only do what you allow, i suggest you have that convo w him about what he plans to do
@amirxalyak, I tried and it was like I stab him with a knife. He got so angry and just argued with for days. I can't do that
@princess_intheoven16, I don't say anything to him because it's going to lead to a huge argument and emotionally I won't be able to handle that. He can be very hurtful with his words.
And you're in your third trimester, you shouldn't be doing a lot of stuff or stressing.
girl oh hell no instead of ranting here rant to his ass that way you get it both out to us and him that's bs tell him to look for a job and to cook and help you clean especially if you're the only one working
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
AF due 29th, anyone else?
Hi all AF is due 29th Sept for me feels like forever away. Has anyone tested yet or when do you plan on testing x
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
@mommy2bee1696 LOL I can relaaaate... I'm so sorry esp. with you being in the last trimester! definetly try a different communication method than the usual... I had to lay it out recently firm, but I didn't raise my voice. I used a lot of "I feel this way because" & "I know you can be more & want to be more of a father"