@mommy2bee1696 LOL I can relaaaate... I'm so sorry esp. with you being in the last trimester! definetly try a different communication method than the usual... I had to lay it out recently firm, but I didn't raise my voice. I used a lot of "I feel this way because" & "I know you can be more & want to be more of a father"

alright anyone in this situation im just saying im mean so id have to smack the shit out if him acting like that, (you should pee in his shoes) not like he gets up and goes to work all day

@srgordon2015523, thank you love

@jelizabeth, a letter does sounds better then speaking to him. And your lucky and blessed to have your parents there for you.

@mango44, yeah your absolutely right. I gonna talk to him and hopefully he'll listen

I'm also in a similar situation I'm here to listen if you need it

I can't offer any advice really as I'm in a similar situation. Just tell him straight up how you feel and that things need to change. I wrote all of my issues with my SO in a letter and gave it to him and told him when he was ready to address everything there we could talk and I've been spending the past few weeks with my parents. Doesn't help that I'm like two seconds away from leaving him at all times but hey. Whatever you gotta do to stay sane and less stressed you do. You got this momma❤️

boo listen, while i can see him loosing his job as a major shot to his ego & manhood, that's unacceptable. he grown, you grown. when you leave for work, take that fool house key and make his ass leave too to look for jobs. yall have a child on the way that his xbox, cell phone, or these bitches are gonna take care of. unless any of the above mentioned plans on employing his ass, put your foot down bc the last thing u want is to be taking care of home, a baby, and a grown ass man. hell no. he better start pulling his weight. if he wanna be a house wife he better go find him somebody who won't mind him being their bitch. otherwise he better get his shit together. & bc people only do what you allow, i suggest you have that convo w him about what he plans to do

@kiara_lovingmyfamily, thank you love

@amirxalyak, I tried and it was like I stab him with a knife. He got so angry and just argued with for days. I can't do that

@princess_intheoven16, I don't say anything to him because it's going to lead to a huge argument and emotionally I won't be able to handle that. He can be very hurtful with his words.

praying for you love. I have been there.

And you're in your third trimester, you shouldn't be doing a lot of stuff or stressing.

have you told him how you felt?

girl oh hell no instead of ranting here rant to his ass that way you get it both out to us and him that's bs tell him to look for a job and to cook and help you clean especially if you're the only one working