20 weeks today!!! TMI... okay so yesterday this SOB almost made us have a wreck by locking his truck…

20 weeks today!!!

TMI... okay so yesterday this SOB almost made us have a wreck by locking his truck up in front of us 3x. the seat belt impact hurt and made me sore across my waistline. went to L&D && they said I wasn't having contractions, Noah's HB was good (150s+) && OB Dr checked me && I was NOT dilated && my cervix was long... however when I woke up my back was sore, && still is! my husband said the pain in my back is like the kidney area... they checker my urine in L&D it was dark, but came back negative. I've also been having troubles #2ing, like its been hard tiny bowel movements, up until yesterday I used it a lot and it was diarrhea. the pain is constant && also it like a constant feeling of me needing to try and #2! is this back labor? contractions? FTM && I'm not familiar with any of this! :( thanks girls. 😘