I went from having a good morning to it going down hill real fast. My sons father hasn't been here since I found out I was pregnant. He jumped ship and moved to a different state. Now after almost a month that my son is born he is back he is trying to pry into our life. He hasn't wanted to be here this entire time.
curiouscrow94Мама двоих (младенец)
the last thing he said to me when I found out I was pregnant was that he wanted nothing to do with me or the baby and that he doesn't do "feelings". I have a hard time believing that could just change. u can't just pick and choose when u want to be a parent.
Stephanie HollandМама дочки-младенца
People can change I know it sounds horrible but if I was in that situation I wouldn't let him back in my life but I would let him in my child's life if he really wants to be. Unless he's a harm to your child. But he does have a right even if he's not on the certificate. I know you would hate to for your child to later hate the fact that she had no option of k owing him because you thought that was best but might not be. Just a thought..
curiouscrow94Мама двоих (младенец)
I have him blocked on all social media. and I changed my number back in December. He is blowing up my moms phone trying to get ahold of me.
MyraМама сына-младенца
I would seriously just block him off of everything, fb, phone, ect and if he persists tell him you're getting a restraining order.
You could tell him that the baby isn't his but that's kind of sleezy lol
curiouscrow94Мама двоих (младенец)
@chhaya, he isn't. My son doesn't even have his last name.
MyraМама сына-младенца
Tell him to screw off. If he's not on the birth certificate then he has 0 rights.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
How many moms are against the flu shot ? I haven't got it and my son hasn't either and I'm really not planning to. But so far an infant died already here in California because of the flu. So I'm scared
I think I've decided to let my doc sweep my membranes today. So my son will be here today!
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Stephanie Holland·Мама дочки-младенца
It's hard for some people to accept the fact they are being a parent. I know it's hard that he wasn't there for the whole pregnancy but he wants to be in his child's life just a month after he was born. Not years after your child is all grown up. I know you don't like him but it's time to think about your son and not you. Like I said you don't have to do anything with him no communication unless it's about your child you move on from him but just because you don't want anything to do with him don't make your child be on your side only he's half you and him.
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