I had a really big fight with my child's father. We both said and did some hurtful immature things and he even said he didn't want to be in the child's life. As bad as I want things between us to get better I want him to be a father more. idk what to do I can't stop crying and tomorrow's my birthday.
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Right its really hard when someone goes from being your everything to being nothing and honestly he was the reason for me keeping the baby(we both grew up with bad parents and fear we would be like them....I especially fear it because I've seen 3 generations of bad maternal skills)
He will come around he is just mad right now. Once the baby is born he will see the baby and couldn't his life without your child. I went through the same thing with my sons father. I left him and moved back home to family. I barely talked to him my whole pregnancy. We fought about everything under the sun. But once my son was born he changed his thought process and wanted to be a part of mine and my sons life. I hope everything works out for you two. At the end of the day what is most important is that are a mother of child and you are there for child. You don't have to be together to raise your child. You just have to get along and put your feelings a side to be good parents.
@carlismommy12, I've been there before, don't stress it. just like everyone else said just talk to him after and work it out. but I hope everything gets better for you both and happy early birthday to you.
@mimi602 I hope everything gets better with you guys. I wouldn't wish this feeling on anyone
I'm there with you. I just got into a fight with mines tonight to.
Give each other space. Once you have both calmed down try to talk to him. don't listen to what he says while angry. People tend to say anything to hurt others when mad
and now my emotions are everywhere but I'll be OK. thank you everyone @madilynn16