@fallenwarrior, Congrats. & yea that's why me & my Fiancé decided to wait til our baby is born and then start rescheduling our wedding again.

when i forst got with my husband i got pregnant 2 weeks after we got together if that. His family was upset but we still waited till our son was almost one to get married. we didnt want to feel like we were rushing our relationship for other people. im glad we waited we are so much closer and now we are expecting our second child.

@amandab, thanks.

you shouldn't care what your family thinks. If you have a "true" family they will love you no matter what.

@bostonsmommy, that's amazing.

my boyfriend and I were together for 3 months and ended up pregnant now we have a 16 month old and just found out we are expecting again. our families were shocked for a moment it was so soon but then excepted it and now they couldn't be happier.

me n my fiance aint married yet been tryin 2 but every time we go 2 get the licence something came up n we r expecting twins

@itz.meli, thanks

i agree do the court house wedding and later down the line you guys can always do the church wedding... relax its not the end of the world... you will be fine sweetie. @mariah0310

thanks that's a first that means alot

If you love each other and plan on getting married anyway I don't see how they could be upset. Unless you have religious ties. I would honestly approach it as though you are excited and a team and act like you expect them to be happy. People tend to pounce on insecurity so don't give them that. If you want to move the wedding up you can but don't do it simply to make other people happy. Do what makes you and your fiancee happy because in the end you're the ones who have to live with your decisions.

thanks that's what we were thinking Thanks

hubby and i had a courthouse wedding

just get married right now. do a court house marriage just you and him and then you will feel better about it. dont wait until baby is born. then just let your family know you are married