My husband and I have been together for 4 years, married for almost 2 - he has a son who is 7 that…
My husband and I have been together for 4 years, married for almost 2 - he has a son who is 7 that my mother has met many times. My brother has been dating his Girlfriend for about 5 months, known each other maybe a year or two (he wasn't interested in her and she finally broke him down) - she has a 4 year old my mother just met. My mother posts on Facebook about the GF's kid with several pictures saying how happy she was to meet this awesome little guy blah blah blah. She has never posted about my husband's son. Should I be pissed off? I feel pissed off. In fact I feel enraged. I really want to throw a fit but I want to make sure the fit is appropriate for the situation and I'm not overreacting because of hormones.
Kristina·
Мама сына-младенца
I would let it go. I'm sure it's a misunderstanding.
Valerie·
No, I agree with you. That's not fair and upsetting. I can only imagine how your husband may feel. I know if I were to be with someone else and their mother had met my son, but never spoke upon him but spoke upon someone's else's child id have hurt feelings. Like what's wrong with my son? Did he bother you in some way? Is he not important? You know. Lol
jana.bear·
В ожидании первенца
@preggerstone, It's not. My mother is petty.
Kristina·
Мама сына-младенца
If she did it on purpose of course I would be upset to.
jana.bear·
В ожидании первенца
@valerie_jean, I was more upset that she posted online about a child who my brother has only been involved with for 5 months. It felt inappropriate. They could break up tomorrow for all we know. This is a women he refused to date BECAUSE she had a kid and he doesn't like kids. She literally broke him down until he agreed to date her. So who knows if it'll last. He already complains about baby daddy drama. And my husband was offended like you said.
Valerie·
Awh yeah I'd definitely speak to her about that. Poor guy😔😔 It's unfair and a little weird forsure.
Tia Williams·
В ожидании первенца
I always wonder if I'm overreacting about things I get upset about. I usually do what you did and ask someone their opinion. I'd just calmly talk to her and ask her if she has an issue with your hubby's child or tell her that it hurts you that she acts as if your hubby's child isn't important to her.
jana.bear·
В ожидании первенца
@valerie_jean, I told my brother not to get involved with the kid until he was sure about the mom and he didn't listen and now my parents are getting involved. But what do I know?
Valerie·
Right man, I don't think he understands children get attached!
Kenna Fahrenwald·
Мама сына (6 лет)
I would be upset. I would ask her why she's never shown any interest in your husband's son. That'd be an issue with me for sure! @jana.bear