I did not have one at least u have family I have no finds or fam to invite

I have the same issue! Although I'm a few months from sending the invites I have the list in my head and it's super small lol I would try to maybe have a coed shower with men and women . If the father is involved invite some of his friends! That's what I'm planning on !

I have two really close friends. So dont feel like you are alone. my baby shower will be family, some of my moms friends and my two friends. (IF they can make it. They live busy lives but I know they will send a gift for sure)