Honestly becoming pregnant was the best thing that has ever happened to me . Before my boyfriend and my baby I used weed and alcohol to escape the pain of losing my grandmother and other things that I was going through. I was becoming someone I never knew . I didn't care about school , I didn't care about anything . But now all that's on my mind is graduating and getting a job to be able to support my child . I laugh at those who talk down on me or say I ruined my life or future , they aren't the ones who are going to put clothes on my child's back , diapers on their bottom , bottles in their mouth or spend sleepless nights taking care of my crying child . My life and future wasn't ruined it just had a little change and now I have another person to love and another hand to hold . My baby is my biggest blessing