My dad is paying for mine I'm a complete daddy's girl and I'm having the first grand baby so he's going all out

Well I'm not too sure because my mom & aunt are throwing one for me but if you wanna do invites go to etsy.com they are very reasonable and they come out great we got ours for 12-16 made and sent to pick up from either Walmart or Sams Club plus they come with envelopes

It all depends on who is paying. Who ever is paying makes that decision. if you're paying and want to drop 50k on it, no one should tell you differently because it's your money