i am constantly wondering if I'm doing a good enough job. like yes he is fed and diapered and I hold him but I just sit and second guess myself. please tell me this is normal for a ftm
I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase? I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Things I never thought I'd say... Until I became a mom:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Naoli Little-Foot Johnson·
Мама дочки-младенца
Yeah sometimes I do that.
Jackee·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
completely normal. If he isn't crying 24/ 7 then you can be reassured that you're doing just fine. 😊
ashley·
Мама сына-младенца
OK good thank you. he really doesn't cry ever he grumps and def let's me know if something is wrong by the ear pitching screams are not to be found. I just don't to bore him or overstimulate him lol. I feel like a mess @maybaby2016
Jackee·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
oh don't stress yourself girl, it's really not as hard as we make it for ourselves the first time around lol. I think it's the unfamiliar and the wanting to be absolutely the best we can that can freak you out a bit. New borns are easy minus the sleepless nights. they get more complicated when they start to be mobile and want to put things in their mouths.
Jackee·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
plus your hormones are still probably trying to regulate themselves which doesn't help how you're feeling.
ashley·
Мама сына-младенца
thanks :) I keep telling myself its just hormones and he just turned two weeks today . my drunk dad came in a told me I'm pale and that he is worried.. like I'm going to punch you in the face . @maybaby2016
Jackee·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
aww, you're probably wore the f out lol. well just remember that your baby boy will let you know if he's not happy and try to take care of yourself as well as your little one. "if momma isn't happy, can't nobody be happy" 😉
ashley·
Мама сына-младенца
thank you love:) I am trying.today is,the first day out of a month that I can't talk to him cause he is in training . so I'm just sad in general that he won't be able to see him for 3-6 months. but when my son smiles it makes everything better.@maybaby2016,
Jackee·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
I could only imagine how hard that must be. I don't know if I could do it. you're a strong woman. 💪