i am constantly wondering if I'm doing a good enough job. like yes he is fed and diapered and I hold him but I just sit and second guess myself. please tell me this is normal for a ftm
thank you love:) I am trying.today is,the first day out of a month that I can't talk to him cause he is in training . so I'm just sad in general that he won't be able to see him for 3-6 months. but when my son smiles it makes everything better.@maybaby2016,
aww, you're probably wore the f out lol. well just remember that your baby boy will let you know if he's not happy and try to take care of yourself as well as your little one. "if momma isn't happy, can't nobody be happy" 😉
thanks :) I keep telling myself its just hormones and he just turned two weeks today . my drunk dad came in a told me I'm pale and that he is worried.. like I'm going to punch you in the face . @maybaby2016
plus your hormones are still probably trying to regulate themselves which doesn't help how you're feeling.
oh don't stress yourself girl, it's really not as hard as we make it for ourselves the first time around lol. I think it's the unfamiliar and the wanting to be absolutely the best we can that can freak you out a bit. New borns are easy minus the sleepless nights. they get more complicated when they start to be mobile and want to put things in their mouths.
OK good thank you. he really doesn't cry ever he grumps and def let's me know if something is wrong by the ear pitching screams are not to be found. I just don't to bore him or overstimulate him lol. I feel like a mess @maybaby2016
completely normal. If he isn't crying 24/ 7 then you can be reassured that you're doing just fine. 😊
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I could only imagine how hard that must be. I don't know if I could do it. you're a strong woman. 💪