So, I really don't know how to deal with my sons other side the family. they're awful people. his grandpa steals the kids ADHD meds, he's an alcoholic and he threatens the kids all the time saying, " I'm gonna knock your teeth down your throat if you don't shut the F*** up" His grandma lies to me all the time about what goes on there and where and who is around my son. and his biological father doesn't ever have anything to do with him, he ignores him for his girlfriend(s), he even wanted to sign his rights away because he didn't want to pay child support but his mom told him if he did that she would disown him. my son has Atopic dermatitis and they're house is infested with cockroaches and Bed bugs, so when he comes back his rash is all over his body and they don't put his medicine on. their family also jumped my friends parents. Zayne has come back with suspicious behavior too, one time he came back and was scared for us to change him, he fought us so hard on it for a while. He always came back with diaper rash, and then he became scared to take baths I mean he was terrified of them. He would literally try to jump out of the tub. I truly fear for my son to go down there and now they are taking me to court for visitation and they are probably going to get it. Idk how to deal with this, I know my sons bio dad doesn't want this it's all his mom pushing for it. This is probably one of the hardest things for me as a mother to be forced to send my son to a horrible home that puts him at risk.
I also wanted to add that they let a 2 year old walk around with cigarette butts in his mouth and drink out of beer cans.