tomorrow I'm not cleaning, folding laundry, or anything. nope. when he learns to appreciate what I do I'll start again…
tomorrow I'm not cleaning, folding laundry, or anything. nope. when he learns to appreciate what I do I'll start again but until then.. I'm finding a way to get the hell out of here.
serina·
current situation ..
and I work .. I hate having to come home and do everything by myself and still get talked shit to when something not done the way he wants it !!
serina·
I been slowly cutting back on my chores and asking him to do things around the house
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I feel u I too have been just sitting around and making him do the work
Margaret·
@lovingmylilg, I don't work yet but starting next week I will when this town opens our apple bees and by then he better be doing his share or shit won't get done. I mentally can not stand messes my brain feels fried if there's a mess.. I cleaned up this morning and he got mad and then wanted to huff and puff when I went to take laundry down stairs. I fucking do it when you're gone by myself don't try to help now. and yeah when I start working if he doesn't help then I'm not doing it anymore. I'm not the only one that lives here. I told him I was gonna start throwing his clothes away if he leaves them around
Margaret·
@brafordfamily22, I'm not his wife or house maid. fuck that. I'm not the only one that lives here.
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@maggie217 exactly which is why I just sit around right now
serina·
@maggie217, I used to feel bad when he would have to come in the house and do stuff. but why get mad or feel bad. we don't make the mess alone. and you sure don't wear all that clothes by yourself .. let him do him. ask him to do stuff. go tale a bath and ask him to start dinner or something.
Margaret·
@brafordfamily22, right Lol. I did what I had to do today and I'm not doing it tomorrow. @lovingmylilg same here but not anymore. the house is gonna go to shit when I start work because he's so forgetful. I don't think he does it on purpose but maybe he should ask what I need help with at least and if he cooks he never cleans up after himself
serina·
@maggie217, mine either !!! I know exactly what your going thru. trust me
Margaret·
@lovingmylilg, it's so frustrating because I want him to help but don't want to be mean about it..
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at least mine cooks @maggie217 I will give him that other than that tho he plays games