I try to get to a break no one want to help me but when I do get a break my daughter cry for me and I wind up don't getting mommy time

try to sit down and explain it to them. not all men automatically think that. just explain you've been with the baby all day and you'd be very grateful if he'd just take him for maximum of two hours once or twice a week so you can have relaxation time. some dads just have a lot of fears and don't know what to do. that's how my son's dad was so my mom had to help him the first couple of times