Mommy's to be? I need a chat.
Found out over 2 weeks ago that I'm pregnant I've told the father but he wants nothing to do with my child wanted me to have an adoration. It isn't what I wanted so I'm doing through this on my own! I have my parents and other family. What breaks my heart is I won't have the perfect little family.. Ect moving into a new house, decorating and the rest😔 sorry if I'm blabbing on😳
Exact same happened to me. You soon learn to love it! I would not have it any other way. It's hard work, really hard work. But knowing you've done it on your own is the most rewarding feeling ever @lozzaa x
I'm also on my own the father is a risk to my kids so did myself a favour and told him to leave but I've moved on and he's gonna help me xx
I'm with my partner but still feel like I'm doing it alone, you'll be totally fine as long as you have supporting family! Congratulations on your little bundle of joy!xx
On my own, also. Best present he ever gave me! He's met her once and tbh I'm quite glad he's not in her life. A woman can be a mommy and a daddy to their baby! As a man can too! Chin up and stay strong! 💜
Whoever the father is doesn't deserve the child if he's acting that way if you ask me. Just think of it as you can go and pick an amazing daddy for your baby now, not many women get that chance! X
Yes definitely. Well he will not be coming back along once the hard years have gone xx
I'm doing this alone also! Will b his loss in long run xx
If he says so, then he's just a dickhead! U'll have ur lil happiness soon, u have ur family to support u so that's the main thing! Destiny gives us children on purpose) Much luck and good pregnancy for u!
IF WHEN I HAVE MY BABY I DONT WANT MY BD OR HIS FAMILY TO EVER C HER WHAT DO I HAVE TO DO???
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
So my water just broke and I have no idea what I'm supposed to do and I'm home alone
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
Please help!
My doctor is trying to induce me before 40 weeks because she's going to be off on my due date and says my placenta is starting to look old. How do I get labor started?? I don't want to be induced for no reason and I'm thinking I won't have a choice. Please help. What do I do to get things going?
Thank you ladies! Feel much more at ease xx