expecting momma here: my boyfriend and I had sex on Monday and it caused spotting (just brown, light, barely there) 3x that day. I'm about 5 weeks (this is a pregnancy immediately following a miscarriage so it's been hard to date me, even with the sac where they saw my tiny bean, waiting 12 more days for next scan to better date me) ER checked me as okay. but until my next scan I'm terrified to have sex again, even though I've been told it won't cause a miscarriage if it's gonna happen it will, the bleeding if it occurs again will send me into hysterics and back to the ER. I just can't get passed the worry to relax and have sex right now and I feel awful because I want to have sex and he wants to....I'm just so anxious to get passed this 1st trimester so the fear of miscarriage can die down...
what is your experince with sex, spotting, doing it again, calming your fears...ect.

(Thread Closed) 12week scan of my identical twins- got my 20week scan in 5weeks but not finding out what sex they are. But just for fun what do you all think? :)
Ok so me and OH just had sex, then I got in the shower after immense pain down below then I'm not sure if my waters gushed out or if I just wee'd myself again😂🙈
Well I’m out ladies went to the ER for some spotting and found out the baby had passed away three weeks ago and I’m starting to miscarry I’m so up set this is my second missed miscarriage in a row I just don’t understand I already have one living child 😢
Motherhood ripped from me again...
I went for my Anatomy Scan on Friday @ 20wks. I went in expecting to find out if my baby is a boy or girl, but came out feeling like I'm going to die.
Tmi pic in comments....Spotting again, this time after sex. ugh...I need positive stories. This is a pregnancy after a missed miscarriage. :(
You just have to understand, there's nothing you can do to prevent miscarriages. Like your doctor said, if it's going to happen, it'll happen and sex wouldn't make a difference. Just relax mama! Stressing about it won't make anything better!