expecting momma here: my boyfriend and I had sex on Monday and it caused spotting (just brown, light, barely there) 3x that day. I'm about 5 weeks (this is a pregnancy immediately following a miscarriage so it's been hard to date me, even with the sac where they saw my tiny bean, waiting 12 more days for next scan to better date me) ER checked me as okay. but until my next scan I'm terrified to have sex again, even though I've been told it won't cause a miscarriage if it's gonna happen it will, the bleeding if it occurs again will send me into hysterics and back to the ER. I just can't get passed the worry to relax and have sex right now and I feel awful because I want to have sex and he wants to....I'm just so anxious to get passed this 1st trimester so the fear of miscarriage can die down...
what is your experince with sex, spotting, doing it again, calming your fears...ect.
You just have to understand, there's nothing you can do to prevent miscarriages. Like your doctor said, if it's going to happen, it'll happen and sex wouldn't make a difference. Just relax mama! Stressing about it won't make anything better!