I'm really not one to air out my business! But I'm just sooo upset right now. My bf/childs father just said the most hurtful thing anyones ever said to me. We got in an argument because he had a few friends over last night at like 2am and they were being super loud, and my daughter was sleep. Basically I complained but like most the time in his eyes I'm in the wrong and I feel like they come before us. Anyways the argument just escalated and I was saying how I'm with her 24/7 and stuff. And he said "as many times as A'Miya fell off the bed, you should be in jail" at our old place when she was starting to roll, sit, and try to stand there were a few times she went off the bed when i just turned my back for 2 secs. he doesn't know how that makes you feel as s mother, then for him to just say that. im truly hurt i cant stop crying. I've done so much for this man. and its like things are just going down hill. i just want to feel loved and appreciated.. not yelled at, blamed for everything, and talked down to. im just so upset and feel like i have no one
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thats why it hurts me he would say something like that. smh, but thank you so much @deedydeemommy :)
Chile dry your eyes your an amazing mother !, babies are very curious, that's why they fall out the bee they wanna know what's on the other side of the bed, so she's just being a baby, its okay
@abbysue, thank you i know he will calm down.. but i know he won't wanna rehatch the convo, more so act like it didn't happen. which doesnt help anything. but thank you again @abbysue
exactly! and that is very scary, im glad she's okay! it just hurts that someone that witnesses you are with yall child 24/7 would say something like that. thats why i started putting her down and her play spaces. unless my eye is directly on her. but thank you for commenting :) @smalltownmama
I have felt like that too but remember we got our kiddos ! Try not to be Ha d on yourself. Kids are gonna fall down and get scraps and booboos . especially when they are getting used to a new skill . Sometimes it's best to try and talk about things after your so has cooled down .
It happens to the most careful parents! My niece was crawling and learning to walk, and at a family reunion she fell down a flight of stairs! Scariest thing I've ever witnessed but she was surprisingly okay, and it WASN'T her mom's fault(as much as I dislike my sister in law) it was purely an accident.
sometimes men just don't know what we have to go Thur when he have to take care of our babies and you welcome