I'm sorry hun

@arijane316, I wish my parents thought that way

and plus, 19 yrs old, you're an adult, you can make your own decisions. ESPECIALLY when it comes to your own child.

It's still none of their business. I live with my parents and my fiancee is a truck driver. my mom is constantly trying to tell me what I should and shouldn't be doing. one thing she does is says "if you keep eating all the time you're never gonna lose the weight" so I told her that I will eat what and when I damn well please and that I'm sick of hearing it because I have no problem losing unwanted weight. she shut up real quick. and she says it because she thinks I'm Iike her (unable to lose weight so I'll be fat for the rest of my life) like no, I may look like you but I do not take after you lol

@arijane316, Exactly. Unfortunately Adilynne's "sperm donor" left me when he found out I was pregnant so I'm stuck living with my mom and her bossy ass boyfriend and his snotty stuck up 18 yr old daughter and 20 yr old son.

man I'd freak out. I am not ok with people telling me how I should raise my daughter. I will raise her the way her father and I see fit. and they will do what I ask and tell them to when it comes to her. they were not there for the conception so they have no say in how she's raised.

@arijane316, it's bad, her bf tells me not to tell him and MY mom what they can and can't do with MY baby....They keep trying to tell me how to raise her....like for real my mom didn't even raise me and my brother Our Dad did....and my 3 older siblings she didn't raise either

Lol its none of their business either. they're expendable haha they have no say whatsoever in what you do or say. they can shove their opinions where the don't shine

@mommy2b2016, EXACTLY I am so worried that if I don't have my baby shower sooner than later I am going to wind up getting great stuff but not everything I need for her as a newborn and then I won't have time to get it all if I wait.....@arijane316, Tell me about it, and when I say anything to my mom her stupid boyfriend or his bitchy daughter jump in our business and say oh stop you're over reacting and I just want to snap and lash out then I remember I'm pregnant and can't lol

It's not her baby shower and it's not her decision. you're not being selfish by any means. your mom on the other hand is being plain rude. if it were my mom, I would have already bitched her out

no because I wanted to stock up on diapers so long ago but my step mom told me not to bc we were having a baby shower and I would get them. I was going to buy a few packs a month to have a supply well now I have literally no diapers bc I had only bought one box and I got 1 small pack from the shower now I'm pissed bc in order to get the stock I would like I need more time than what I have now

@arijane316, That's exactly what I said. My mom just thinks I'm being "selfish" she wants me to reschedule it but I've already had people RSVP saying they took off for it and family from out of state say they were coming. My mom only thinks about herself and she stresses me out to the max lol

do whenever you feel like. if you already know the babys sex there's no reason to wait until it's too late