Thank you that helps a lot

Im terribly sorry this happened to you. Nothing compares to this feeling of loss. I lost the baby right before this current pregnancy (got pregnant a month after passing the previous fetus and highly dont recomend following in my foot steps as far as getting pregnant back to back like that, but thats another story completely) I naturally miscarried at 11 weeks, and passed the baby at 12 weeks. As long as youre being monitored by your doctor I think thats the best route, Ive only heard terrible things about d&c. It wasnt fun, I was very sick and passed out few times from throwing up and becoming dehydrated but I bounced back just fine physically. By day two after losing them I was walking around fine. The few people I know who did d&c had a tough recovery. Best of luck to you hun. And remember, your ob knows best.

I'm scared either way and I don't want to wait a long time to have it naturally. they think my body tried cause I started spotting but stopped. how soon after a natural or dc can you ttc again?

let me start off with saying I'm sorry for your loss. I had a 3 missed miscarriages. I had a d&c with our first lost I was 8+5 when baby stop developing and had a d&c at 10+0 with the second I was given cytotec baby stopped developing at 8+6 and passed eveything at the hospital around 12+0 and our 3rd I miscarried naturally at home baby never developed a heartbeat but a yolk sac and gestational sac was present and measure 7+3 I miscarried naturally at 12w2d.
the natural miscarriage for me was the easiest to recover from not saying it was painful but letting it happen naturally I healed body wise a lot faster and had less complications then with the previous 2.

I had a natural miscarriage at 6 or 7 weeks.

my friend did 😔😔 it broke my heart, she went for an ultrasound at 9 weeks & they said the baby wasn't in the sac, she let it happen the natural way as well