has anyone had a missed miscarriage? I have a third ultrasound to confirm Thursday? and I need more information on it they say the baby most likely died at six weeks and I'm suppose to be 13 weeks. I know if I miscarried I will have to decided between waiting to naturally miscarry or a d and c. and I would love someone to share their thoughts on this things cause I don't know about either of them.
Im terribly sorry this happened to you. Nothing compares to this feeling of loss. I lost the baby right before this current pregnancy (got pregnant a month after passing the previous fetus and highly dont recomend following in my foot steps as far as getting pregnant back to back like that, but thats another story completely) I naturally miscarried at 11 weeks, and passed the baby at 12 weeks. As long as youre being monitored by your doctor I think thats the best route, Ive only heard terrible things about d&c. It wasnt fun, I was very sick and passed out few times from throwing up and becoming dehydrated but I bounced back just fine physically. By day two after losing them I was walking around fine. The few people I know who did d&c had a tough recovery. Best of luck to you hun. And remember, your ob knows best.
I'm scared either way and I don't want to wait a long time to have it naturally. they think my body tried cause I started spotting but stopped. how soon after a natural or dc can you ttc again?
let me start off with saying I'm sorry for your loss. I had a 3 missed miscarriages. I had a d&c with our first lost I was 8+5 when baby stop developing and had a d&c at 10+0 with the second I was given cytotec baby stopped developing at 8+6 and passed eveything at the hospital around 12+0 and our 3rd I miscarried naturally at home baby never developed a heartbeat but a yolk sac and gestational sac was present and measure 7+3 I miscarried naturally at 12w2d.
the natural miscarriage for me was the easiest to recover from not saying it was painful but letting it happen naturally I healed body wise a lot faster and had less complications then with the previous 2.
my friend did 😔😔 it broke my heart, she went for an ultrasound at 9 weeks & they said the baby wasn't in the sac, she let it happen the natural way as well
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Thank you that helps a lot