so two days this week my husband has said no to having sex. last night it really hurt tho when he…

so two days this week my husband has said no to having sex. last night it really hurt tho when he turned me down. I feel so rejected still and hurt by it. part of it is because he made up excuses on why he didnt want to. at first he said yes. then I come back from being outside and he barely touches me and says I've had a bad night and dont think that I could treat you the way you deserve to be treated if he we did it. he said he wanted to cuddle but everytime I tried he moved away from me.. I understand he had a bad night But that doesn't make it ok to treat me differently. the only time I treat him differently is when I'm upset or mad at him.