I need help!!!

So i dont know what presents to give at my baby shower from the winners of the games!!

Any ideas??

Baby daddy told me today that when we go to court he's telling the judge that I said I wont allow our son & daughter to be around his girlfriend by them self. I dont know this chic from a can of paint I dont know if she would try to mistreat my babies if I dont trust baby daddy alone with them why should I trust some chicken head that I dont know ???

no heartbeat

I just came to the dr to see the baby tomorrow id be 9 weeks no heart beat. Im in shock everyone is running around to schedule a dnc i cant move. I dont understand how this happened.

Is it rude to not want anyone at the hospital?

I was just informed that my MIL wants to be waiting at the hospital so as soon as I pop out the baby she can rush in to be with the baby. I am really a private person and dont really want anyone at the hospital when I give birth (except my husband). I was planning on calling all the family to come to the hospital once I was all cleaned up and ready for visitors. Am I being rude? How do I tell them I dont want visitors a minute after pushing out...

IF WHEN I HAVE MY BABY I DONT WANT MY BD OR HIS FAMILY TO EVER C HER WHAT DO I HAVE TO DO???