really need to vent!

is this chick your friend?! @muva.lotus

he cut her off and he started crying because I was going to leave as soon as she said that and he didn't want me to go and he said she was lying

My honest opinion is that something did happen and you should cut them both out, but if you're not sure I mean just still don't have her around. If your man has a problem with cutting her off, then there definitely is a problem. One of my situations was I was close with the girl and her bf, they both knew a lot of my stories, and he in turn thought it was okay to ask me to mess around, thinking I wouldn't tell her? Which was completely wrong. He asked me to come smash him while she was at work, and then like come on I know you wouldn't tell her etc... Then I told him to fuck himself if he thought I would really do that, and I told her all about it. Didn't get a chance to show her the messages before she blocked me and believed his crying ass over my PROOF.

Yeah that's really tricky. I hate situations like that. She does sound like a hoe to me, since you already know something terribly sketchy that she did. I would definitely not allow her around you or your man anymore EVER. But also if everyone knows that she did that, in a mans eyes she does seem like an easy person to mess around with and have nobody know about it. And I do agree with he wouldn't be crying if he didn't do anything wrong. Tricky tricky..

Oh yea I think they smashed since she joking saying our nigga. Why would she say that if its no truth to it. If your man never did anything inappropriate toward her that could never come out her mouth jealous or not

@muva.lotus, you will find out either way who ever u decide to believe the truth always comes out

@lovelymother856 thank you 😊

It wouldve been different if she was just coming to her and telling her what happened. But from the way shes saying sound like they were in a heated argument so I can see why she feels the way she does @babymay2016

but she didn't tell me like grown woman to grown woman she joked about it, said its "our" nigga but months back she wanted to be friends and said he was family plus she has a baby of her own but the baby dad isn't in the picture because she slept with his brother

But she was mad so that came out but ughhh idk @babymay2016

some females do things because they want what you have you have to remember females are very sneaky once she see yall break up she'll be 10x Happy so i wouldn't even give her the time or day unless she can provide proof and facts until then believe your man

but hey, at the end of the day I was happy for doing what I knew was right (telling the truth) and even though I lost a friend, I realized if they were REALLY my friend, they would have believed me and not their dirt bag boyfriend.

yeah I know :(

@djsmommy0516, It is a very tricky situation for sure, but I have found that most likely she was telling the truth. I can tell you for sure that I did NOT want these guys, and I thought I was doing the right thing by telling my girls, and it just bit me on the ass for telling the truth. They in turn thought I was jelly of their man, when I was just trying to help them out by showing them how much of a dirt bag they really were!

I'm not crying if I didn't do anything wrong. Scare his ass though. Don't just go off of what she says. People lie and want what others have. U will find out if it's true sooner or later.

I am kinda torn now after what @babymay2016 just said 😩. Its a tough situation girl

Just trust him then if he's lying it will come out trust. Whats done in the dark comes to the light. But from now on keep her away from your man a girl like that for one is not your friend and for two she cant be trusted. If she is making allegations out of jealousy and anger most likely she wants your man. Best to cut all ties with that chick

These boys also cried and got their girl to believe them over me, but after it happened 1000 more times and they broke up, then they finally want to believe me about it..

I definitely think there could be some truth to it. I see that it could be possible for someone to make that up, but in every situation I have seen it was true and the guys girlfriend just did not want to believe it. My friends boyfriend has made a move on me before (two different situations) I weighed my options and decided to tell her, and lets just say we aren't friends anymore. Years later they aren't with the dudes and finally believe me, but it's too late now!!!

he swore up and down she was lying, crying and all. he makes it seem like he never wants to lose me @djsmommy0516

that

Could be true you need to get to the bottom of thay

do you think a female would lie of your significant other cheating on you with them out of jealousy or it might be some truth to it ? @amagrum

Go for it girl! Get it off your chest!