idk how much longer i can do this. i hardly get any sleep and im working all the time plus taking care of my 18 month old son and im 23 weeks pregnant. im exhausted all the time but my fiance hasnt been home and he always seems to go to bed before me and i stay up with our son. i can feel my body being exhausted and weak but its not going to change anything if i tell him cause he has serious family issues right now. i dont know what to do
no worries, we are the same way.. don't really know anyone and don't have the extra to pay a sitter. it is hard, I hope you find some time to get rested
@mamamj thats smart. and i would do that if i could. right now we dont have anyone to watch him and im the only one working and we dont have money to pay the bills we cant afford to pay someone. i just have to live with no sleep. sorry not shutting you down or anything
yeah. i still end up staying up and doing a lot. this pregnancy has been really hard for me for a lot of reasons and i just feel alone and he isnt making it better.
have anyone you trust your little one with? next time you have a day off, see if they can watch 'em for either pay or exchange like supper or something and then sleep, soak in a bath, be a blob on the couch watching movies!
yeah right. i dont see that happening anytime in the near future. and compromise doesnt really work. @dae
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Its almost 11. Put my son to bed at 9:20 and he has bee. Down here 5 times already i am about to loose it. And when he is upstairs i hear walking around and no one else isnup there but for my daughter who is sleeping. Im sooooo close. I havent had any time to myself at all. Im sore as hell and just want 30 minutes!! Butnnow im about to go to sleep and i just know its going be about 10 more times my son comes to me of some made up injury or how hes thirsty. I might not have any hair by tomorrow m...
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
I know this sounds sooo fkedup but sometimes i wanna get into a bad accident so my husband sees exactly all the things i do ... and how wrong he is by saying i don’t do enough ( not in those words but the jist of it ) anyway .... i think this all the time . Maybe then he will think differently .
What time should I make my fiancé son go to bed tonight ? (He is 4)
hopefully. but thanks for the advice. ill definitely use that one day @mamamj