okay mommies, I'm freaking out. I'm 19 having my first baby I've NEVER HELD A BABY OR TAKEN CARE OF ONE and I'm due in 1-2 weeks. my cousin in law just had her baby last night and I went to see her and the minute I held the baby I started to cry and freak out and get contractions!!!!! I'm so scared!!!!!! what if I mess up??? what if I can't do it and I can't push???? HELP 😭😭😭😭😭 I can't wait to meet my baby girl but I just had a total meltdown and freaked out.
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Its perfectly normal to freak out but once you hold her then you will be just fine. You may be scared to fail as a parent but the mother instinct and skills pop right in once the baby is here. Congratulations by the way
I know how you feel though, I have twins coming and never had to be with infants like to raise, and I am scared too.
Get a doula if you can afford it, she will help with postpartum. Also the LaLecheLeague will be able to assist, and some Dr's offices have people who can do home visits to check up!
I'm 36 with my first and I'm scared too lol. I know it will all workout though.
I was like that with my son terrified scared I was still young an parting but the moment I had him my life change I was different I now though of him before myself an he is now the greatest thing in my life he gives me reason an purpose he is my little rider now I'm on my second child I'm 23 now an my son is 3yrs just make sure you have lots of family to support you an you can also take parenting classes so don't stress help is every where if you look or ask I hope this helps you
That's how I was right before I had my daughter I was going crazy thinking I wasn't going to be the best mom what if I messed up what if she didn't like me lol 😩I cried because I was getting induced and I didn't want to have her I wanted to keep her in my stomach longer lol .. When she was born it all changed 😍 relax it will come to you the moment your baby is born 😊
because it scares you so much and you freaking out about not being perfect tells me that your going to be just fine and you only have to be the best you to your baby ,you will be great 😉
Worst day ever, come to find out the father of my child was talking to another girl behind my back telling her that we wasn't together and the only thing we had together was a baby. Like he is living with me and all... I suffer from bad depression and anxiety and I stopped taking my meds when I found out I was pregnant. And now I'm freaking out, I'm hurt, I'm embarrassed and I don't know what to do.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
HELP! MY dog may or may not have just eaten half a container of peanut m&ms; my son had in his room 😢 I can't take her to the vet.....I'm freaking out! What do I do???
is it wrong to be frustrated that my daughter acts like she can't do certain things with out my help. she plays dumb a lot and I wish I could be like no girl show what you know. she acts like she can't trace or match shapes so shes ask for "mommy finger" to help her so I barely hold her hand and she magically can do it but if I dont hold her hand she just scribbles and acts like she doesnt know
the pic is how she traces when I'm "helping her" otherwise it'll just be scribbles all over the page
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