okay mommies, I'm freaking out. I'm 19 having my first baby I've NEVER HELD A BABY OR TAKEN CARE OF ONE and I'm due in 1-2 weeks. my cousin in law just had her baby last night and I went to see her and the minute I held the baby I started to cry and freak out and get contractions!!!!! I'm so scared!!!!!! what if I mess up??? what if I can't do it and I can't push???? HELP 😭😭😭😭😭 I can't wait to meet my baby girl but I just had a total meltdown and freaked out.
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Its perfectly normal to freak out but once you hold her then you will be just fine. You may be scared to fail as a parent but the mother instinct and skills pop right in once the baby is here. Congratulations by the way
I know how you feel though, I have twins coming and never had to be with infants like to raise, and I am scared too.
Get a doula if you can afford it, she will help with postpartum. Also the LaLecheLeague will be able to assist, and some Dr's offices have people who can do home visits to check up!
I'm 36 with my first and I'm scared too lol. I know it will all workout though.
I was like that with my son terrified scared I was still young an parting but the moment I had him my life change I was different I now though of him before myself an he is now the greatest thing in my life he gives me reason an purpose he is my little rider now I'm on my second child I'm 23 now an my son is 3yrs just make sure you have lots of family to support you an you can also take parenting classes so don't stress help is every where if you look or ask I hope this helps you
That's how I was right before I had my daughter I was going crazy thinking I wasn't going to be the best mom what if I messed up what if she didn't like me lol 😩I cried because I was getting induced and I didn't want to have her I wanted to keep her in my stomach longer lol .. When she was born it all changed 😍 relax it will come to you the moment your baby is born 😊
because it scares you so much and you freaking out about not being perfect tells me that your going to be just fine and you only have to be the best you to your baby ,you will be great 😉
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