What would you ladies do my husbands dad was just told that his cancer is back and now he has multiple spots on his liver.... that being said i want another kiddo my daughter is getting ready to turn two at the end of march and we were planing on trying at the end of this year for a summer baby but with his dad having the cancer back and all Im hoping for a boy we already have names picked out both agree we want another kiddo but is it too soon am i crazy ps i want a boy not only cause i have a girl but we are going to make his name meaningful and use his dads middle name! just needing some opinions and advice