When I found out I was pregnant my mom wanted me to get a abortion..

wow crazy our mothers are just alike she says the same thing about me. Then we I tell her whats on my mind she say I am disrespectful and my sons gonna disrespect me. If I dont agree with what shes saying I am disrespectful or talking back ugh. she always say I dont like kids anyway and Im like idc my baby have other family memebers like u are not the only one.

@djsmommy0516, thats exactly what happened between me and my mother she told me all this shit before and i forgave her cus that was last year and than i got pregnant again .. same dude lol im still with him and she always and i mean always says i dont appreciate shit she has done for me .. uhm besides putting a roof over my head what have you done nothing! my mother is childish and i might be wrong for this but idc my child is not gonna be around that kinda stuff and kinda people cus i dont want my child thinking its okay to talk to somebody like that

My mother says hurtful things to me too. I lost my first baby and this time in the beginning she always do things to start arguments and stress me out I reminded her of the baby I lost and I didnt want anything to happen to this baby and she said she didnt care. She told me plenty times she doesn't care that I am pregnant and she wont be helping me and she dont want to be at the hospital. I kindly told her idc and I dont want anything from her. She dont like my baby and he wont like her ass either o well.

im already 25weeks & 6days .. so im not second guesing this time it not the first time she said this shit to me( sorry for cussing im really frustrated )

trust & believe she will learn her lesson cus when my child is born. i dont want her in the delivery room , nor after i have my child. nor in my mf house .. im on this lease, & best believe when i get this cash assistance im moving tf out and best believe she will not step foot in my yard

exactly . i told her she is not gonna be around my child at all ever.!! & i dont want nothing from her at all idc what it is and bad i need it

My mom would say things like that, but not in those exact words with my last pregnancy. Its safe to say I was TERRIBLE to her once I miscarried, and made her kind of feel like it was her fault. It was terrible of her and of me, because it was not her fault that happened to me. But hey she learned her lesson and she has been NOTHING but supportive throughout this pregnancy.. I hope that she realizes her faults and stops this behavior before your baby is born. But I totally understand you not wanting your child around her if she does not. It took a tragedy for my mother to actually realize the severe harm she was doing to me and my unborn child.

I probably would have told her something to the effect of "don't you worry one bit about my baby because you won't ever see her after those words."

I would never speak to her again ... I've lost a baby an that is hurt I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy. it's not okay to say that to someone , my mother told me it was probably my fault I lost the baby when we were in a fight , an my sister passed away she knows what it feels like to loose a baby so for her to say that it's just fucked up. . .. people are so cruel with there words Idc if they mean it or not .. you don't say that .

Wow I would be hurt hearing that from your/my mother ... I'm so sorry she feels that way ... And I wouldn't want my baby around her either ... That's sad 😥