just got home from my first cervix check. no progress. but she is guessing he is around 7 lbs right now. the check wasn't as bad as I thought it would be. I am a bit crampy right now.
@dropdeadmeg, that doesn't sound too bad. Thank you. I think I can relax a little now lol I hope the don't use the speculum I hate that thing!
@twinscomingsoon, my dr just used her fingers to feel around. I thought they used a speculum like in a pap, which hurts more than this did. For me, this was ok, just gave me period type cramps after. I think I was more nervous than anything
I have to have cervix exams every two weeks. My first will be on the 29th. What does a cervix exam consist of? Is it painful? I'm a little nervous.
@dropdeadmeg, tomorrow! :) fingers crossed that I'm dilated now, last week i was only 50% effaced
@annabellemaesmommy, fingers crossed that is what helps progression! when do you go back to the dr (
Ive been crampy after both of my past cervix checks, the first time i wasnt progressed at all & the second time i had progressed, idk if it had anything to do with the check or not, just thought id share :p
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
@twinscomingsoon, yeah I'm not sure why everyone says it's painful if they just use their finger... I hate the speculum too! that's so uncomfortable!