i need opinions here! Am i being over emotional and making this whole thing a bigger deal than it…
i need opinions here!
Am i being over emotional and making this whole thing a bigger deal than it is?
So my fiances ex sierra showed up at my fiances house to see the niece and nephew and he decided it wasnt a big deal and didnt mention it at all to me till i saw over his shoulder that she messaged him "so very happy to see you :)". I asked him why he didnt tell me and he asked "why does it fucking matter?" um hold on here i am carrying your child and i am suppose to be your fiance and soon to be wife. i feel so betrayed and heart broken and like he cheated on me with her all because he hid it from me. like really?
babyjjsmommy·
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I'd feel the same way!
Ashley·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
id feel the same way
katie·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (8 нед.)
Something sketchy there.
Mrs. Mitchell·
I would feel the same way.. but just because you are his fiance and carrying his child does not give him the right to speak to you in such manner just because you were concerned. always remember your worth because I'm sure you are a wonderful woman. but stay positive because thinking negative will not help anything get better. and if you feel like he will trip out if you ask him again then don't waist your time asking it's not worth the argument or stress, tears. just try and trust that he did not betray you.
Brittney·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (11 нед.)
I would be upset and I would have to word it to mine like this "What if it were me? If my ex came over would it be okay with you? Would you expect me to tell you?" He does not get my point until he puts himself in my shoes...
felicia·
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@bocoin1, he tried telling me that hed calmly ask me what he was doing there and what the message was about but he is the beyound jelious type and i have done so much for him and he has ruined it and now i am truly leaving because his father wants to talk total shit saying its his house and if he wanted to hed invite all his exs over.
felicia·
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@bocoin1, he tried telling me that hed calmly ask me what he was doing there and what the message was about but he is the beyound jelious type and i have done so much for him and he has ruined it and now i am truly leaving because his father wants to talk total shit saying its his house and if he wanted to hed invite all his exs over.
Brittney·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (11 нед.)
@talbottgirl, mine is beyond jealous too. Take time if that's what you feel you need to do. If he can't respect that it hurts you and understand that its not something he should have told you then I would leave. Take time apart, destress and go from there in a few days or so.